Once you are in a loving, committed relationship with a strong woman, your next step would be to keep the spark going.
Strong women will not tolerate mistakes as she has high standards and clear morals. If you can’t respect her, she could easily pack up and leave. She needs some space to do her own thing.
If you’re in a relationship with a strong woman, here are 10 things she absolutely will not tolerate:
Respect goes both ways in a relationship.
The only way to be sure you won’t disrespect her is to treat her as you want to be treated, or even better like she wants to be treated. How can you know? Well you can’t go wrong if you ask her, she surely won’t be ashamed to tell you how she wants to be treated.
2. Trying to Dominate Her
One thing you can be sure a strong woman will not tolerate in a relationship is complete domination from her partner. This will make her feel powerless and it’s not something she is used to.
You need to let your woman to take the lead frequently as they will know when to do it and when to let you take the driver’s seat. You shouldn’t be intimidated by her strong will, that’s what you love about her in the first place.
3. Pushing Her Boundaries
A strong woman knows her personal limits, values, morals, and beliefs and she knows where to draw the line. Don’t push her boundaries or you will feel her anger.
4. Treating Her as Less Than Your Equal
Treat the woman in your relationship as your equal in every way. If she needs your help, she’ll be humble enough to ask for it. Don’t assume she can’t do something, and don’t let income, education, social status or gender play a leading role in your relationship.
5. Not Supporting Her
A strong woman is most likely on a mission. She knows what she wants and she’s working to achieve it. If you put her down and criticize her when she shares her goals and dreams with you, she’ll see it as a slap in the face. If you aren’t going to support her and be by her side through her achievements, she’ll find someone else who’s willing to be standing in the front row, happy to watch her succeed.
Physical, mental, or sexual-abuse is abuse. And no self-respecting woman will stand for it. If you want to win over a strong woman, and keep her, up your game!
7. Guy who wants to be mothered.
She is your partner, not your mother or your maid. She will love you, baby you, and pat your head when you’re sad, but at no point will she ever stoop to doing your chores for you.
8. Infidelity and lying.
Gone are the days when women would keep mum about a cheating partner’s shenanigans, or take him back. The new-age woman is different. She will have her vengeance and how.
You shouldn’t hold back on your feelings because your strong woman want to hear how you feel. According to a study on relationships, strong women expressed that the key to a successful relationship is independence of decision-making and communicating emotions to form a deep, intimate connection to their partner and you need to remember this is you want to preserve your relationship.
Women are more intelligent emotionally than men and they can read even the subtlest body language which reveals hidden emotions, making it impossible for you to hide your feelings. That’s it’s better if you speak your mind right away if you want to avoid conflict.
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