When we meet our soulmates, we start behaving differently. Our perspectives can change; we even treat other people differently.
A Gallup poll study shows that, “while marriage is losing much of its broad public and institutional character, it is gaining popularity as a ‘SuperRelationship’ — an intensely private spiritualized union, combining sexual fidelity, romantic love, emotional intimacy and togetherness.”
As you and your soulmate bond, you will find that this one important romantic connection will shape other things that will happen to you.
5 THINGS THAT HAPPEN WHEN YOU MEET YOUR SOULMATE
1. MIRACLES BEGIN TO HAPPEN
When you have found the one who was meant for you, your soulmate, it can feel like a miracle for you. Why would it not be possible for other extraordinary things to happen? With your new sense of love, fulfillment and belonging to another, you will begin to notice other happy coincidences.
The connection of you to your soulmate was a part of your destiny. Now that you are on the path to completing this part of your life’s purpose, other pieces will begin to happen for you as well.
2. YOUR SOULMATE HELPS YOU SOLVE PROBLEMS THAT YOU HAD NO ANSWER FOR BEFORE
Not having a loving partner was like having a problem that needed to be solved. Now that the hole in your heart has been made whole, you can focus your energy on other things that need fixing
Neil Clark Warren, author of Date or Soul Mate?: How to Know if Someone is Worth Pursuing in Two Dates or Less, says that your soulmate will be someone who is your financial partner for life, roommate for life and joint parent to every child you will have for life. When you have found a soulmate, these crucial decisions are no longer a concern for you. Having someone to rely on that can support you in these ways relieves a huge burden.
With the help of your soulmate, you can both work to find solutions together. Two minds and hearts are far better than one at overcoming any obstacle. Your partner supports your dreams and wants you to be happy so they will focus their energy on helping you do what needs to be done.
3. YOU CONNECT MORE DEEPLY WITH FRIENDS AND RELATIVES
Once you have met your soulmate, the other meaningful connections in your life become more meaningful as well. You have found a way to bond so deeply with one person that you appreciate the value of that strong connection to people. You begin to seek out opportunities to connect closely to the other special people in your life.
You begin spending more time with family, asking your parents, relatives and friends about their love lives. You learn to appreciate the love that created you and your soulmate.
Friends who support your relationship will be ones that you keep, but anyone who feels that you have not made the right match will be gone from your life quickly. You have no room in your life for someone who can’t support your connection to your true love.
4. LOVE HAPPENS FOR OTHER PEOPLE AROUND YOU TOO
Once you have met your soulmate, you start to help others to see the possibility of love connections around them. The quality of a soulmate is now one of the most desirable traits in a partner, according to a Gallup poll of men and women age 20 to 29. Now that you have found your soulmate, you want your friends find their soulmates as well and experience the happiness that you have.
Knowing yourself, your dreams, fears, values, morals, likes and dislikes is a good first step to finding the right soulmate connection, according to Neil Clark Warren. With your perspective on true love, and a good knowledge of your friend’s personality, you can help them find mates that will feed their soul, not starve it.
5. YOUR WORLD VIEW CHANGES.
Your soulmate will begin to help you see things in a different way. You have a positive, excited-about-what-the-future-holds outlook that you might not have had before. Your soulmate has helped your heart open and you will be more forgiving, loving and accepting of others as a result.
You begin to think about the legacy that you will leave for future generations. Will you build a family together? How will the world look for your future family? Even if you don’t decide to have children, you begin to wonder about how you can help others to see that true love is indeed possible, even in a cynical world that doesn’t believe in soulmates.